How We Communicate Men And Women

Men and women use the same words, but say different things.

How women use language

Women use words to express their deepest feelings. Often, his words have a high emotional charge. She does not express single words, but inner feelings.

In addition, words often have hidden meanings, hidden subliminal messages. The man sometimes gets to be a wizard to know the real intent of what women are saying behind a phrase.

For example, if a woman says "I never listen" to the common man can sound like a complaint, but it really means is "today I am sensible, it was a good day and I want to pay attention, I need empathy and your understanding, it makes me very happy to hear me. "

Where is the problem? That women think men really understand all the subliminal messages behind their words. And it is not.

The woman says to herself "if he loved me, I understand." But I assure you, if you're a woman, that however much we love men, most times we do not understand what you are really trying to say!

How man uses language

He uses the most direct language to convey information or specific objective facts. The man does not usually use language to convey your feelings. Even when the man speaks of what he feels, it does so descriptive, reporting, often with no emotions involved (unless they are very strong emotions).

For that reason is that man is very difficult to understand what the woman is trying to say behind their words. He has no idea what his wife is thinking.

In the example of "never listen to me!" The man sees this as a claim or complaint, where his wife tells him he is never there for her. He was so angry, and thinks that his wife does not appreciate what he does. Then he begins to name the other times where he has heard.

Different language skills

Another difference is that women love to express what they think and feel. It also has a superior language skills. The man, however, does not like to talk about his feelings, and little talk about what you think. And often people do not know how to express many things.

This difference is often despair at the woman because she wants to know everything about him, how he was, what he thinks about it, how you feel ... And the man is desperate, not wanting to talk about anything but just rest.