Train to survive your divorce

After a few years, some people regret having signed their divorce settlement and wanted to turn back time ... but it is irreversible. The aim is that after signing your divorce settlement you feel happy and satisfied, even after years.

You have to think about the future not now. This may sound silly or corny, but after a few years after the divorce did not think so.

So let's discuss the wording of the agreement on issues of children, their education, overnight, alimony and child support, plus remarriage, among other details.

Collect / deliver

Certainly not want your ex-wife knocking at the door, nor want to have to walk on your property, especially if the divorce was not painful and there were many fights. One suggestion is that the wording have clauses that say that "any party may be the property of another."

As for collection / reception of children after divorce, this work is on par with the school. Accompany the school bus or pick them up at the end of the school day. This will help your children get to school on time, but no school can be problems. In holiday seasons, your kids can be with you for example 15:00 to 17:00 hours and then leave with her mother.

School / education

This is a big problem and you need a divorce lawyer for excellence. We need to protect your children from changing schools, so make sure that in the divorce settlement has phrases that say "school change of any kind requires joint decision or change of school district requires joint decisions."

You can use phrases like this in the wording of the divorce settlement:

"Any change in the education of children requires a joint decision."

Spousal Support

Spousal support, sometimes called alimony or maintenance is different for everyone. Normally what matters is "how" and "for how long." In this way, you could pay X amount of money for two years after a number and for another two years.

Once signed the divorce agreement, the maintenance of your ex-spouse can not be changed. This includes winning the lottery, career change, etc.. Also make sure that the part of the maintenance of the former spouse in the divorce agreement clearly stipulates that the support ends on a specified date without the possibility of extension.

Financial support may also end if your former spouse remarries, has a boyfriend or dies. Furthermore, support should have nothing to do with marital status or walk of life you pay for.

Child Support

Perhaps in this area of ​​the divorce settlement can be considered:

Income of both spouses.

Child support paid and received the former spouse.

Medical insurance paid.

Payment of child care.

Many parents do not want to pay any money when they know they have the obligation. However, there are fewer parents who want to pay more to his ex-wife alimony. Here are some factors you should consider so that your support is adequate.

First, it makes the initial decision about whether each person will be responsible for both child care, without being a factor in child support. Be careful here because your ex could report you and say that she cares for the children at all times when not.

Second, the account of child support can be calculated every two years. This should be easy as long as taxes, receipts, etc.., Are provided. If you work on your own or your ex so may have strange results on the taxes reported.

Third, make sure the child support can be AutoCalculate when a job change, position, etc.. Most states have a standard percentage change in income causes a recalculation.

Finally, in determining the number of days of parenting, you have to use a specific tool. You may need to consider all the holidays, summer vacations, and other factors that are written in the paper on parenting time.